What Is Your Priority?

I feel uncomfortable if people ask me, ‘Why do you wanna get married at such a young age?’ ‘Ko tanak buat Master dulu ke?’ Bla bla bla.. Well, people have asked me this, really. Mind you, next year I’m gonna be 25. Correct me if I’m wrong, but to me that’s NOT young. That’s suitable age for everybody to get married.

I understand that everyone has their own priorities in their life. Some of us wanna get Master or even PhD before settling down, some of us wanna have lots and lots of money before thinking about marriage. Nothing wrong with that. It’s their life. Me? Well, let me give you the list.

The first thing of all, I wanted to finish my study, and get a degree. Now, I have already got it, Alhamdulillah. So, the second thing, I wanted to have a career, that would give me monthly income, which I have right now, Alhamdulillah. Next, I wanted to have my own car, that I’m gonna pay monthly using my own money, which I also have right now, Alhamdulillah. Along the way to get all this, I have found the love of my life. We love each other very much, and we’re talking about future almost every day. We both have careers, and some saving, so what’ next if it’s not marriage?

Whatever it is, I just wanna have my own family. Well, of course I will get a Master one day, we both will, but it’s just not now. Setting up a family, that’s my priority. If I manage to have that, that’s an achievement enough to me. It’s something that I can be proud about coz life after marriage is not easy, I know that. Seru or nafsu, to me that’s out of question. Marriage is still a good thing after all regardless of what age you are. As long as you are ready and well aware of the purpose, the challenges in marriage, you will be okay. Supporting each other, that’s what your other half is for, to get through every obstacles along the way. Insya Allah, good marriage will be blessed by God. Semoga Allah permudahkan segala urusan..

And I surely can do the rest (Master and Money) even after having children. No?

20112010 Meaningful Ceremonies..

(Background Music, -Dynamite by Taio Cruz, Kissing You by Miranda Cosgrove, 2012 by Jay Sean, Billionaire by Travie Mccoy feat Bruno Mars)

It’s such a sweet feeling, waking up in the morning and saw these two beautiful things on my fingers, a symbol that I am now belong to someone, well, officially. Hehe

Let me just tell you briefly about my E-Day. Actually, we had two events on that day, one was Majlis Kesyukuran / Aqiqah for our beautiful newborn niece, Darling, and my E-Day ceremony was in the afternoon session. Well, here are some photos for the Majlis Kesyukuran Aqiqah for Darling. One thing I tell you guys, she was the loveliest thing (besides my rings, of course) on the planet. She was sooooooooo cute with that Lovely Lace cream gown that she wore that day. Just like a lil princess!!!!

Darling with mommy, and cousin KakLong..

Wan (my mom) is cutting Darling's hair!

The swing that we made for Darling, the night before.. Cantik! Hehe

Sleeping beauty.. 😀

Me, holding Darling.. Together in this picture, is her mommy and her two brothers, Aneeq and Danish. 😀

The proud daddy (my bro) and mommy (my sis-in-law) with Darling on my pelamin! Hehe

How can people say NO to this cute lil thing?? Eii! I admire u soo much!!

Cute lil Darling! I know you'll be a beautiful girl one day!

Darling was already tired after the ceremony.. Haha

The first ceremony ended about 12.30pm. So, I started my make-up around 1pm and then got dressed, put on the veil and all, almost finished at 2pm. Not long after that, when I looked out of the window from my room (which was on upper floor), I saw this very familiar car passing by my house. It was MAV (then followed by other cars)! I was like, OMG! He’s here!!!! I could see clearly he was walking happily with his family heading to my house.

Well, he waited outside of course. While they were all discussing about the dates for the wedding and all, my besties and I were at the room, cam-whoring, laughing and etc. Few minutes after that, I heard my nephews, Ean and Aneeq calling me from downstairs, ‘Cik Imy! Wan suruh turun!’ They shouted that many times, as if I was bloody deaf. I wasn’t deaf, I was just taking my time. Haha. Time tu tetibe la nervous lak.

So, as I was climbing down the stairs, my besties were all behind me, calming me down. Haha. But know what? They were actually making me more nervous. Haha. So, as I came into the view, I didn’t look around (yet), I quickly sat on the mini-pelamin. Then, I looked up. The first familiar face that I saw was Pengkek, our photographer especially hired for my E-Day. He was right beside me, all ready with his camera, waiting for the right time to snap. When he saw me, he jokingly gave me a ‘MEOW’ sound and that somehow made me laughed and less nervous.

After few flashing of the cameras, this one lady came up to me and introduced herself, but sorry I cant remember who she was, was she his Mak Lang? or Mak Long? Something like that. She put on the first ring on my finger, and then some more flashes. While she was doing that, I heard someone said, ‘Huih, menggigil tangan dier tu!’ Hahaha! Really??? I was shaking??? Damn! Soooo uncool!

Well, that was for the first ring (cincin merisik). As for the engagement ring, it was his mom’s turn who was gonna put it on my finger. This, one funny thing happened! The ring didn’t fit my finger!! Haha. And I think I heard his mom jokingly asked me if I gained some weight. Haha. But actually what happened was, my right ring finger was one size bigger than the left one (I think that’s normal, anyway). When we bought the rings months ago, I gave different measurements to the jeweler, coz my two ring fingers were in different sizes. So, I think the engagement ring that his mother put on my right finger was supposed to be on my left one (coz the ring was smaller), that was why it didn’t fit. Err… Do you get what I’m saying? Whatever, but I seriously didn’t gain any weight. Haha

Okay.. So, after salam-salam with the rest of the relatives, my besties and I went outside to do a series of outdoor photo shoot. Sadly, Mr.Gonzales couldn’t stay any longer. He needed to get back early coz of the long journey, plus he got few things to settle too. I think, I only met him for about less than half an hour. Hu… That was the briefest meeting on a very special day. So, he missed our outdoor photoshoot that I was supposed to do it with him, as our pre-wedding photos. 😦 But, it was still okay coz I have my friends who cheered me up. We posed and shot a lil cute video-clip kat kebun, it was soooo fun!

So, that was pretty much about my E-Day. I am only uploading few photos here as the rest of them are still in the editing process. Cant wait to see it! Way to go, Pengkek and Wana!

Emy & Ewan Engagement -E3

This is my favourite pic! Everyone looks soooo happy holding cupcakes!!

The nice cupcakes baked by Capira..

The lovely rings!! Love them!

These pictures are the official ones from Soulclickers Studio. For now, there are only four of them, but here, I’m also uploading the unofficial yet still lovely photos from my niece’s camera, Kak Long.

Putting on the first ring!! 😀

After putting on the rings, smiled nervously!

Salam2 with the Mr.Gonzales' relatives.. Hihi

Some of the hantaran photos…

The red ones were from my side, and the purple ones were from his.. (could you see the purple oness in this pic??)

Bunga Rampai..

Body Shop stuff... Hehe.. I've already told him, that he only can take the shaving cream, the rest, he needs to return those to me! Hahahaha. JK

So… That’s it. Here, I wanna thank to those who came to the ceremonies, gave supports, especially relatives, neigbours and close friends.. Special credits to Pengkek and Wana, as our photographer for the day, to Capira, who baked our delicious cute cupcakes (I’m addicted already!), not forgotten, Aina, Cikin, Masreha who cheered up my day! Also, to those who gave me warm lovely wishes on my FB wall, I love you guys!! ♥

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The house is starting to be busy.. Tomorrow, about this hour, I’m gonna be someone’s fiancee! 😀 I know to some people it’s not that much, I mean, it’s just an engagement ceremony, not a wedding one, but still, to me it means the world. This is our next step in heading to that direction. May Allah bless our love and relationship.

And I really hope everything’s going well. Amin…

2012 and Kissing You

2012 ( It Ain’t The End of The World) by Jay Sean feat Nicki Minaj

[Jay Sean]
Ohh ohh
It’s alright, Oh It’s alright
You know what they say
Life ain’t always easy and everyday
we’re survivors
So forget the day
It’s all about tonight act a fool
and start a riot, a riot be rebel
Bottles poppin ’til we cant stand
We keep it rocking ’til 6 am
New York to London over to Japan

Turn it up .. Turn It Up.. Mash it up
We gonna party like
Party like it’s the end of the world
We gonna party like, like it’s 2012
You know that it doesn’t matter as long as we got each other
Turn it up.. Turn it up .. Mash it up
It ain’t the end of the world
Gonna live like it’s the end of the world
Gonna party like
Turn it up… Turn it up… Mash it up
It ain’t the end of the world

[Nicki Minaj]
Simile’s, metaphors and we pop pills
sick flow inundated with the doc bills
work hard, now we know how to top bills
in the middle of the street doing cartwheels
lot of them tryna do it but its not real
wasn’t a rapper then I coulda got a pop deal
white clothes in a hot pink hot wheels
lot of bottles and a lot of booty cocktails
uh, days of our lives
you wink it goes by
so we’ll just get it with no edison
anything goes so no time for closed minds
and free my lil weezy
and lets just get right
Young Money, Cash Money in the building
lets go the World ends tonight

[Jay Sean]
Have a drink with me
And lets make tonight go down
In history.. in history yeah
lets play make believe
Its the last 24 hours and this whole world is ours eternally, eternally

Bottles poppin til we cant stand
We keep it rockn til 6 am
New York to London over to Japan
Turn it up .. Turn It Up.. Mash it up
We gonna party like

Party like, like its the end of the world
We gonna party like, like it’s 2012
You Know that it doesn’t matter as long as we got each other
Turn it up.. Turn it up .. Mash it up
It ain’t the end of the World
We got live like its the end of the world
We gotta party like

Turn it up .. Turn It Up.. Mash it up
It aint the end of the world
No I’m not gonna follow
Anything that say anymore
It’s never to late to start living
So let start it with here right now

Party like like its the end of the World
We gonna party like like it’s 2012
You Know that it doesn’t matter as long as we got each other
Turn it up.. Turn it up .. mash it up
It ain’t the end of the world
We gonna live like its the end of the World
We gonna party like
Turn it up.. Turn it up .. mash it up
It ain’t the end of the world
The world
Because the world keeps spinning
The world keeps spinning around

This is my favourite song at the moment, as well as my ringtone! Love the video, so party-like!! Hehe

Okay, now my second song for today (this is also my ringtone)

Kissing You by Miranda Cosgrove

Sparks fly its like electricity
I might die when I forget how to breathe
You get closer and there’s nowhere in this world I’d rather be
Time stops like everything around me is frozen
And nothing matters but these few moments when you opened my mind to things I never seen

Cause when I’m kissing you my senses come alive
Almost like the puzzle piece I’ve been trying to find
Falls right into place you’re all that it takes
My doubts fade away when I’m kissing you
When I’m kissing you it all starts making sense
And all the questions I’ve been asking in my head
Like are you the one? Should I really trust?
Crystal clear it becomes when I’m kissing you

Past loves they never got very far
Walls up make sure I guarded my heart
And I promised I wouldn’t do this till I knew it was right for me
But no one no guy that I’ve met before
Can make me feel so right and secure
And have u noticed I loose my focus
And the world around me disappears


I’ve never felt nothing like this
You’re making me open up
No point even trying to fight this
It kinda feels like its love


And… My current ringtone set especially for my Mr.Gonzales!!
‘When I’m kissing you my senses come alive’

E-Day Countdown

Just rearranged the furniture in my room for E-Day. Haih.. Sweating.

Okay, before I go membebel here, firstly, Salam Aidiladha to all!!! How many bowls of gearbox soup you guys have this time? I just had one last night. Makan ngn sambal kicap, soooodaaap! Haha . Secondly, million apologies to the blog and to you (those who cares) coz I have abandoned this blog. Again. Clearly to me, the time that I have to update this thing seems less and less each day. Especially, when I am not a student anymore. I thought last few weeks of school was a chill-out time for me, but sadly, it was sooo NOT. Straight after PKSR 2, we had PSS Week, and after that, School Trip to KLCC. Then, we had Koko Camping and lastly, the event that exhausted me the most, Hari Anugerah Kecemerlangan Sekolah. Thank God I managed to persuade my colleague, Ustaz Faiz to be the Emcee, which I was supposed to be at the first place, and.. He agreed. 🙂

Since I last blogged, many things had happened along the way. I am not intending to describe them one by one, plus, I dun remember much pon, so, maybe next time I’ll just upload the pics to summaries all the events I went through.

The most important thing, is about my E-Day! For some reason, I am soo excited about it. My bestie Sal asked me yesterday if I am nervous etc etc, but honestly, NO! I’m not nervous at all! I am sooo excited. I smile from ear to ear looking at all those white baskets finely decorated with red beads, laces and flowers! They’re all ready weeks ago! Hahahahaa. Owh, except for the fruits, and cupcakes and Secret Recipe cakes of course. I’m gonna buy the fruits tomorrow, and Kak Eda will collect the SR cake from Shah Alam (tomorrow jugak), and owh, this afternoon, I’ve promised Capira to go to her place checking out her cupcakes that she especially bakes for my E-Day! Hihi.

OMG!! Just remember one thing!!!!!!! One very important thing!! I haven’t bought the cream scarf yet for me to wear on my E-Day!! Stupid2!!